Relationships · Marriage · Life · Purpose
We’re Tayo and Itee — husband and wife, pastors, founders of The LifeSpark Foundation, and professionals who believe the best things in life are built on honest conversations. This is where we share ours.
What we talk about
Everything we write, record and teach comes back to one question: how do you become the best version of yourself — in love, in life and at work?
Friendship, dating, engagement and marriage — the everyday habits that build love that lasts, and how to find your way back when it’s hard.
Explore 02The decisions that shape a life: where to go, who to trust, when to wait and when to step out. Wisdom for the crossroads.
Explore 03Work, calling and ambition — growing in your career without losing yourself, your family or your faith along the way.
ExploreMeet us
Pastor · Life counsellor · Author · Speaker
Architect of the LifeSpark360™ programme and a qualified life counsellor, Tayo brings two decades of leadership in cybersecurity alongside a lifelong passion for helping people grow with clarity and confidence.
Pastor · Lawyer · Coach · Speaker
Founder of The LifeSpark Foundation and its senior coach, Itee is an in-house legal counsel and a Vice President of Leeds Law Society — bringing rigour, clarity and real warmth to every conversation.
From the Journal
Some decisions keep you awake at night. A new job, a move, a relationship, a leap of faith. Here’s a simple way to think them through — without rushing, and without staying stuck.
“Be the best version of yourself” can sound like one more thing to be exhausted by. We see it differently — as a direction, not a destination, and a journey you don’t have to walk alone.
A wedding lasts a day; a marriage lasts a lifetime. Here are the conversations we encourage every engaged couple to have before the big day — not to scare you off, but to set you up well.
Ambition is a good thing. But when what we do becomes who we are, every setback feels like a verdict on our worth. Here’s how to build a career you love — on a foundation it can’t shake.
Every relationship has its seasons. What matters most isn’t avoiding the hard ones — it’s learning to walk through each one together.
Ask Tayo&Itee
Relationships, marriage, a big decision, a career crossroads — ask us. We read every question, and with your permission we may answer some anonymously in the Journal.
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Speaking & events
Keynotes, workshops, marriage evenings and panels — together or individually.
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